T:Wife with end stage early onset Alzheimer's	
Q:Hello,  Everyone. 
 I am new to <institution>. 
 My wife is approaching end stage early onset Alzheimer's. 
 I am her sole caregiver. 
 She was first diagnosed in <date>. 
 I also am caregiver for my <age> autistic son. 
 I welcome this forum. 
 A:Hi <name> - welcome! Do you have Care Aids come in to take care of your wife so you can have a break?
A:Yes. 
But the company is very unreliable. 
Some of the aides do not show up. 
When they do,  it is normally a newly hired young person. 
They cannot fry an egg sunny side up or clean. 
When the replacement person shows up about <time>,  I have already given my wife a shower and breakfast. 
 My wife still can walk and sometimes finger feed herself. 
 I am looking for another <institution>. 
 Thanks for asking. 
 A:I am new to <institution> also and actually joined due to suspecting Lyme disease. 
 I read this topic also as my mother has primary progressive aphasia which affects her speech and she is now non verbal and has affected her memory and has severe dementia. 
 She is in a memory care unit. 
 I also have a <age> son with autism who is getting extensive therapy. 
 So I know how difficult and stressful this must be. 
  
