T:Ok heres the latest venting	Q:I work on laundry after patient goes to bed. I didn't hear patient get up. I walk baack in and get cussed out,  called prosatute (sp? sorry I cant think of how it spelled),  more words upon that last word,  patient said they were telling everyone that I am having men over left and right. There was no cars in the driveway,  no one over,  and me in the laundry room working on laundry. It got so bad that patient told me to get the heck (not as nicely said) out,  and I was not wanted there. So I cleverly grabbed my house key,  and said Ok I will leave right now since I am not wanted here. And I left. I stayed on property,  well hidden,  but full view of what happened in the house. We have a garage here,  with a couch and boxes around it,  but the boxes are just angled right to where you can see the windows of the house. So I went on the couch. I had my cell phone,  and the house key. I waited til patient went back to sleep and stayed out there til about <time>. about <time>,  patient woke up again and came in my room to check on me. They do not remember what happened. But it sure made me mad. Did I do the best thing in that situation?	A:As long as you could see what was going on in the house then I think what you did was fine. Sometimes it's best to go with the situation then to fight it. AZ patients are not in control of their emotions nor thoughts. So at that given moment,  they wanted you out and would have steadfastedly insisted until the next moment in which they wanted you back. Is this a female or male you are watching?


A:Female. My grandmother,  however,  I am paid by state due to my medical training. I kind of told my family over my dead body she'd go in a home without my efforts. I worked in a home before this,  and on a different floor.  


A:I firmly believe that a <institution> should be a last resort kind of thing. Kudos to you! 
