T:Trouble dealing with feelings of anger	

Q:Hi I'm new here and just need to vent a bit. 
 I am currently dealing with my mother in law (mil) who has been diagnosed with Alzheimers. 
 I have been married for <time_period> and quite frankly she was never very nice to me before her illness. 
 She lives with us. 
 I am having a lot of trouble dealing with my feelings of anger. 
 I work <time_period> most days I try to do meal prep for my work food she takes the food I make and puts it in her room leaving me nothing for work. 
 My husband and I gave up our bedroom so she can have the largest bedroom with the bathroom. 
 She consistently throws away things that I need. 
 Tonight she threw away my rolling pin. 
 In <month> she threw away a $<num> check that I requested for a <num> loan before that she threw away a syringe that was the only measurement for my sick cats meds. 
 He is an only child and I am at my witts end. 
 She is not bad enough for her <professional_practitioner> to warrant institutionalization because she puts on a good front in public. 
 How does everyone deal with this?	
A:She is reverting to a CHILD like state of mind. 
 You need to childproof your home etc. 
  You need to find an outlet for your anger. 
 Jogging is something simple and good for you. 
  Make sure your husband is doing more than his fair share of care. 
 She doesn't need to be bad enough for institutionalization. 
 You/her/the family needs to be able to afford care for her. 
 Was she or her husband in the <institution>?
